Keeping It Real

Wow. Yesterday’s article and video really struck a nerve.

It seemed you resonated with the message of keep taking action until you get what you want – in my case, a break!

I received a few comments on the blog, but even more sent to me via email.

I notice with the more ‘sensitive’ topics, that you might be more inclined to respond privately…and that’s okay.

You see, a few years ago, I wouldn’t have been able to send the article…and definitely not the video.

Call from a Friend

“Wow” she said.

One of my friends called and said ‘wow, that was really open and vulnerable of you to share.’

It was…and it felt great.

I imagine you may feel the same.

When someone is phony, you’re repelled and want nothing to do with them.

When someone is real and honest, you’re attracted to them.

It’s been one of my biggest challenges, to be as authentic as I can be.

Whether through writing, on the stage, or one-on-one over the phone, my challenge, and maybe yours, is to show up and be as real as possible.

What You Should Do

It’s easy to tell people what they ‘should’ do without sharing much of yourself. I even teach a whole segment on removing “should” from your vocabulary.

What works for me is to share my experience, offer solutions that have worked for me, and let you decide for yourself.

Because, it’s hard enough to know what I “should” do, there’s no way I know what you should do.

Being Real is Not Real Easy

I find it challenging to be real, show my vulnerabilities and imperfections.

It exposes me to the possibility of more pain. Or that’s the fear.

Listen, every time I share something like yesterday’s video, the opposite of my fear happens.

You respond in an overwhelmingly supportive way.

More comments on the blog. More personal email and yes, even more sales.

People like and reward “real.” Not full disclosure of every crazy thought or darkest emotion, but “real” to know you’re a living, breathing, feeling and imperfect being.

I encourage you to look at how you can be more real today.

How can you connect with your audience.

Whether they be children, adults, professionals or friends you hang out with, what can you do to connect on a deeper level

If it’s scary, it’s probably a good thing.

Keeping It Real,

David

PS – Thank you for your comments. Some of your shared how my words triggered something for you. If you experienced something like that, send me an email or otherwise share your story.

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